When Coaching Feels Easy, It Is Not a Sign You Are Lost
Her easiest week of client work ever, and her first read was that something must be broken. What it means when coaching feels easy and the tools stay down.
Three letters a week for coaches, healers, and space holders, a story, a teaching, and a tension, each one written to be worth your while all on its own, and the podcast for the weeks you would rather listen.
a story from my week, and what it came to teach me
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Her easiest week of client work ever, and her first read was that something must be broken. What it means when coaching feels easy and the tools stay down.

Manifestor coaches go quiet with the unfinished thing, and I would rather be admired than helped. On why informing a room is the harder medicine to take.

Three ways of holding space, from inside one mentorship session, plus the loop that keeps a beautiful offer from ever getting built.

If the business side of coaching feels like an obstacle course between you and the work you love, the word "just" may be hiding what is actually hard.

A recipe I wrote for my best friend, and the one swap that turns it into a way to nurture client relationships without it becoming one more task on your list.
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Take the quizAs a student of social justice, I am actively listening and learning, trying my best to bring about systemic change. I may falter at times but hope that I humbly continue to dismantle cultural appropriation, racism, gender binaries, and other social issues within my business and as part of my personal growth. I shall continue doing the work.
I, Sora Schilling, acknowledge that I live and work on the ancestral homelands of the Tuscarora, Lumbee, and Catawba. I respectfully also honor the Lenape, Canarsie, and Wappinger people as the original stewards of the land I was blessed to be born on and resided in for most of my life. Lastly, may I take this time to give great thanks to my Korean ancestors.
The lands in and around present day Raleigh are the homelands and gathering places of the Coharie, Eastern Band of Cherokee, Haliwa-Saponi, Lumbee, Meherrin, Occaneechi Band of the Saponi Nation, Sappony, and Waccamaw Siouan.